Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Life



Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many friends you
have. Or how many people call you. Or how accepted or unaccepted you
are. Not about if you have plans this weekend. Or if you're alone. It
isn't about who you're dating, who you use to date, how many people
you've dated, or if you've ever dated at all. It isn't about who you have
kissed. It's not about sex. It isn't about who your family
 is or how
much money they have. Or what kind of car you drive. Or where
you're sent to school.

It's not about how beautiful or ugly you are. Or what clothes you wear,
what shoes you have on, or what kind of music you listen to. It's not
about the color of your hair. Or if your skin is too light or too dark.

Not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart everyone
else thinks you are, or how smart standardized tests say you are. Or if
this teacher likes you, or if this guy/girl likes you. Or what clubs
you're in, or how good you are at your sport.

But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about who you make
happy or unhappy purposefully. It's about keeping or betraying trust.
It's about friendship, used as sanctity, or as a weapon. It's about what
you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening. It's about starting
rumors and contributing to petty gossip. It's about what judgements
you
 pass and why. And who your judgements are spread to.

It's about who you've ignored with full control and intention. It's
about jealousy, fear, pain, ignorance, and revenge. It's about carrying
inner hate and love, letting it grow and spreading it.

But most of all, it's about using your life to touch or poison other
people's hearts in such a way that could never have occurred alone.
Only
 you choose the way these hearts are affected . . .and those choices are what life is all about.

  -- Author Unknown 

Be blessed

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